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Moms — How to Prioritize Yourself + Reclaim Your Time

Motherhood has a way of turning even the most balanced women into professional givers. You show up for everyone else — but when it comes to your own needs, they’re often last on the list. This piece dives into what happens when giving becomes your default mode, why receiving matters just as much, and how to start creating real balance — without guilt, burnout, or losing yourself in the process.

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Disappointments: How Couples Can Rebuild When Expectations Fall Short

Disappointment is inevitable in relationships — even the strongest ones. The difference between couples who drift apart and those who grow closer lies in how they handle it. Learn how to navigate disappointment with empathy, communication, and repair.

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The Perfectionism Trap in Marriage and Parenting

When you begin showing up more authentically in your family relationships, something beautiful happens. Your vulnerability gives others permission to be vulnerable too. Your acceptance of imperfection creates space for everyone to relax and be themselves. Your willingness to prioritize connection over perfection models healthy relationship skills for your children.

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When Your Mind Won’t Slow Down 🧠 Strategies to Regulate an Overactive Mind

Racing thoughts can feel incredibly isolating—but they’re more common than we think. Talking about them, normalizing them, and having tools to manage them is a powerful form of self-compassion. If you struggle with racing thoughts, I want you to know: you’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’re human. And there are ways to find calm—even if just one breath at a time.

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Listening to Understand, Not Just to Respond: The Key to Stronger Relationships

Listening to understand means being fully present with your partner, setting aside your own thoughts, defenses, and need to respond. Instead of formulating your next argument or counterpoint while they’re speaking, you focus entirely on their words, tone, and emotions.

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Social Media Intensity, Social Connection, and Wellbeing: Finding Balance in a Digital World

Social media is a double-edged sword. While it has the power to foster connection and community, its intense use can also negatively impact well-being. By being mindful of our social media habits and prioritizing authentic connections, we can harness its benefits without falling prey to its downsides.

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Supporting Someone After a Wildfire: What to Say and Do

Avoid phrases like “At least you’re safe” or “Everything happens for a reason,” which can unintentionally dismiss their pain. Your presence, understanding, and practical help can make a big difference in their recovery process.

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Why Prioritizing Mental Health in 2025 is the Best Resolution You Can Make

Mental well-being enhances how you connect with others. When you feel grounded and balanced, you’re better equipped to nurture relationships, resolve conflicts, and show up authentically. By prioritizing your mental health, you create space for deeper, more meaningful connections in 2025.

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Break Free from People-Pleasing: How to Prioritize Your Needs Without Guilt

People-pleasing may feel like a way to keep peace and maintain relationships, but it often comes at the cost of your own happiness and authenticity. By prioritizing your needs and setting healthy boundaries, you can cultivate relationships that are built on mutual respect and genuine connection. Remember: Your worth isn’t determined by how much you give or how agreeable you are. It’s okay to choose you.

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Is Your Partner Enhancing Your Life?

The question, "Is my partner enhancing my life?" isn’t just about today—it’s a question to revisit regularly. Life changes, people grow, and relationships should adapt. If your partner adds value to your life, support them as they do the same. And if the answer is less clear, have an honest conversation with yourself and, if possible, with them.

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