As a psychotherapist, I see anxiety show up again and again in OC moms — not because they’re doing something wrong, but because they’re doing too much without enough support. Let’s talk about what’s really going on and what helps. Together, we can find ways to calm the nervous system and reclaim space for rest and presence.
Read MoreAs one year closes and another approaches, anxiety often gets louder—not because something is wrong, but because the pace has been relentless. December has a way of slowing the calendar while speeding up the mind. This is when reflection can quietly turn into rumination, and relationship stress feels harder to ignore. Couples counseling and anxiety support are often most effective during this pause—before familiar patterns roll forward into a new year.
Read MoreMost people think they’re good listeners—but real listening is rarer than we realize. Active listening isn’t about waiting to respond or fixing the problem. It’s about slowing down, regulating your nervous system, and truly hearing the person in front of you. Especially during the holidays, this one skill can be the difference between connection and conflict.
Read MoreDisappointment is inevitable in relationships — even the strongest ones. The difference between couples who drift apart and those who grow closer lies in how they handle it. Learn how to navigate disappointment with empathy, communication, and repair.
Read MoreTwo women, one family, and a whole lot of unspoken rules. If you want a healthy mother/daughter in law relationship, you are not alone — this bond is tender, layered, and totally workable. Here’s a grounded, step-by-step guide from a Newport Beach LMFT with over 20 years of experience supporting Orange County families.
Read MoreA romantic moment at a Coldplay concert turned into a viral betrayal — but the real story is emotional disconnection, something many couples quietly face. In this post, I explore how relationships unravel over time, why affairs often begin long before they’re visible, and how therapy can help couples rebuild connection.
Read MoreWhen you begin showing up more authentically in your family relationships, something beautiful happens. Your vulnerability gives others permission to be vulnerable too. Your acceptance of imperfection creates space for everyone to relax and be themselves. Your willingness to prioritize connection over perfection models healthy relationship skills for your children.
Read MoreToo busy to feel? Learn how avoiding emotions hides behind packed schedules — and how therapy can help you slow down, check in, and start feeling again.
Read MoreAs a couples therapist, I see the same patterns over and over again — partners arguing about the thing, when the thing isn’t the problem. In my latest blog, I explain the deeper emotional drivers of conflict and what actually helps couples repair. If you’re ready for deeper, more effective conversations in your relationship, I’m here to help. Learn more @shelbycastile.com ~♡
Read MoreAs technology continues to evolve, it's important to remember that healing happens in relationship—not just in conversation. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply ready to explore therapy with someone who sees the whole you, I’m here to help. I’ll always advocate for human-to-human therapy. Licensed professionals are trained, regulated, and committed to your well-being in a way no AI ever can be.
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