Most people think they’re good listeners—but real listening is rarer than we realize. Active listening isn’t about waiting to respond or fixing the problem. It’s about slowing down, regulating your nervous system, and truly hearing the person in front of you. Especially during the holidays, this one skill can be the difference between connection and conflict.
Read MoreMotherhood has a way of turning even the most balanced women into professional givers. You show up for everyone else — but when it comes to your own needs, they’re often last on the list. This piece dives into what happens when giving becomes your default mode, why receiving matters just as much, and how to start creating real balance — without guilt, burnout, or losing yourself in the process.
Read MoreDisappointment is inevitable in relationships — even the strongest ones. The difference between couples who drift apart and those who grow closer lies in how they handle it. Learn how to navigate disappointment with empathy, communication, and repair.
Read MoreA romantic moment at a Coldplay concert turned into a viral betrayal — but the real story is emotional disconnection, something many couples quietly face. In this post, I explore how relationships unravel over time, why affairs often begin long before they’re visible, and how therapy can help couples rebuild connection.
Read MoreWhen you begin showing up more authentically in your family relationships, something beautiful happens. Your vulnerability gives others permission to be vulnerable too. Your acceptance of imperfection creates space for everyone to relax and be themselves. Your willingness to prioritize connection over perfection models healthy relationship skills for your children.
Read MoreIf you’re a young adult struggling with perfectionism, you’re not alone. That pressure to be flawless, to have everything figured out, to always be “on” – it’s a heavy load to carry. And while striving for excellence can be a beautiful thing, perfectionism can slowly drain the joy and meaning from your life.
Read MoreRacing thoughts can feel incredibly isolating—but they’re more common than we think. Talking about them, normalizing them, and having tools to manage them is a powerful form of self-compassion. If you struggle with racing thoughts, I want you to know: you’re not broken. You’re not failing. You’re human. And there are ways to find calm—even if just one breath at a time.
Read MoreFor those of us in the helping profession, we often witness others’ pain, but when it becomes personal, we’re forced to navigate the same emotional terrain we guide our clients through. It’s a humbling reminder that no amount of knowledge or training can fully prepare us for the depth of loss. Grief has a way of bringing us together in our shared humanity, yet it can also feel incredibly isolating.
Read MoreListening to understand means being fully present with your partner, setting aside your own thoughts, defenses, and need to respond. Instead of formulating your next argument or counterpoint while they’re speaking, you focus entirely on their words, tone, and emotions.
Read MoreSocial media is a double-edged sword. While it has the power to foster connection and community, its intense use can also negatively impact well-being. By being mindful of our social media habits and prioritizing authentic connections, we can harness its benefits without falling prey to its downsides.
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