Posts tagged online therapy for individuclas
Listening: You Think You’re Doing It. You’re Probably Not

Most people think they’re good listeners—but real listening is rarer than we realize. Active listening isn’t about waiting to respond or fixing the problem. It’s about slowing down, regulating your nervous system, and truly hearing the person in front of you. Especially during the holidays, this one skill can be the difference between connection and conflict.

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The Real Reason Couples Argue {and it’s not what you think}

As a couples therapist, I see the same patterns over and over again — partners arguing about the thing, when the thing isn’t the problem. In my latest blog, I explain the deeper emotional drivers of conflict and what actually helps couples repair. If you’re ready for deeper, more effective conversations in your relationship, I’m here to help. Learn more @shelbycastile.com ~♡

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