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Listening: You Think You’re Doing It. You’re Probably Not
Listening: You Think You’re Doing It. You’re Probably Not

Most people think they’re good listeners—but real listening is rarer than we realize. Active listening isn’t about waiting to respond or fixing the problem. It’s about slowing down, regulating your nervous system, and truly hearing the person in front of you. Especially during the holidays, this one skill can be the difference between connection and conflict.

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Too Busy to Feel: Why Constant Activity Might Be Hiding What’s Really Going On
Too Busy to Feel: Why Constant Activity Might Be Hiding What’s Really Going On

Too busy to feel? Learn how avoiding emotions hides behind packed schedules — and how therapy can help you slow down, check in, and start feeling again.

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Why AI Can’t Replace Therapy: A Psychotherapist’s Perspective
Why AI Can’t Replace Therapy: A Psychotherapist’s Perspective

As technology continues to evolve, it's important to remember that healing happens in relationship—not just in conversation. If you're feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply ready to explore therapy with someone who sees the whole you, I’m here to help. I’ll always advocate for human-to-human therapy. Licensed professionals are trained, regulated, and committed to your well-being in a way no AI ever can be.

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Anxiety, Couples, Family, Friendships, Marriage, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Motherhood, Parenting, Relationships, Therapists, TraumaShelby CastileIndividual therapy California, Therapy for anxiety California, Couples therapy Orange County, Online therapy for individuals, Relationship therapy California, Trauma counseling California, Artificial Intelligence, ChatGBT, #shelbycastile
Supporting Someone After a Wildfire: What to Say and Do
Supporting Someone After a Wildfire: What to Say and Do

Avoid phrases like “At least you’re safe” or “Everything happens for a reason,” which can unintentionally dismiss their pain. Your presence, understanding, and practical help can make a big difference in their recovery process.

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